previous post reconsidered and enhanced.

Thought: A marriage is made of two people. That leads to two variables that do not always lead to the same solution. What I am getting at is, my marriage is just that, MY marriage. I am not my parents' marriage, I am not my in-laws' marriage, I am not my friends' marriage, I am not apart of a tv show or movie, I am nothing but purely me. And Same for my husband! And together, WE are what make our marriage our own. It is unfair to give any preconceptions based on others because they have their ideas based on their experiences. We need to make our own decisions to find what makes us work. And I am learning to let go of what other people think and to form my own opinions and to really let go of frustrations. They only bring me down. And there really is nothing worth the frustration now. So many blessings have been given! I have a wonderful loving husband who really loves me for me and believes in all that I am. He works hard and has a job, which is wonderful. And we have a home together, we have food, we have luxury items for goodness sake! we are not doing bad. And I shouldn't feel bad. We are doing well. very well. And I have a wonderful husband that loves me, did I already say that? because it is the most amazing wonderful thing I always feel blessed about. :)